I’m going to tell you right up front that I’m not a fan of Valentine’s Day. I’m a romantic in every sense of the word and I think that is why I don’t like a Hallmark Holiday like this to exist. People shouldn’t need a single day with over priced flowers and cards that will get thrown away to show their love. Call me old fashion like that, but I’m ok with it.

If you really must do something this weekend, then at least be original about it.

This picture is what is on my white board right now in the office. My daughter made it out of my Buckyballs (the coolest birthday gift I got last year BTW) and when I saw it I couldn’t stop smiling. The fact that it is original and from the heart is what matters the most and the same goes for anything else you are thinking about doing on February 14th.

So here are some personal suggestions on how to move beyond the same old, same old:

• Chocolates & Flowers
  This is Grade A boring and what everyone does. BUT, if you are going to do it then at least be original about it and have some fun with it. I’m a pretty big hater of the major flower chains because I’ve had bad experiences with them all. Instead why not get your flowers from a local florist that will make you a custom order and you know it’ll come out right. Every town has one so ask around.

  On the sweet side there are boutique chocolate shops popping up all over and many of them are now online. Two personal favorites of mine are Lake Champlain Chocolates and 5th Avenue Chocolatiere. Both are better then any heart shape boxed of boring that you are going to pick off a store shelf.

• Cook Dinner
  I once heard someone say that there was no faster way into a woman’s pants then through her stomach and they were right. Unfortunately, this years Sex on a Plate has been postponed (put it on your calendar now for next year), but that doesn’t mean that you can’t make a romantic meal. Even if you don’t know how to cook there are tons of great and simple recipes out there. When in doubt go with some pasta and a good bottle of wine. Yes, it may be overly simple, but again it is the thought that counts the most. Just don’t over eat because that will get in the way of other things.
• Get Offline
  This may sound like an obvious one, but seriously, turn off the cell phones, unplug the router if you need to and get away from the screens. Spend time together! Go for a long walk. Play cards. Get naked. Whatever it is, just don’t involve anyone else for a while. The few hours of dedicated YOU time will be well worth it and your partner will appreciate it.
• Make Something
  I’m not much of the crafty kind of guy, but anyone can make a home made card. Think beyond the obvious. Make a photo collage, write a poem or go over the top and buy and MP3 player and fill it with a “mixed tape” of tunes that you love. Have fun with it, but don’t do it at the last minute just because you forgot everything else. Homemade needs to show you put some love and thought into it for it to really shine through.
• Pampering
  I’ve met many women who say they are not into the spa treatment, but after they go for their first time I’ve never heard them ever say that again. Look for a local place that she can get her nails or hair done and better yet can get a massage. If you have no idea where to look ask some other women around the obvious or go online. You are sure to find someplace within driving distance of you. This doesn’t come cheap, but is well worth it. I still remember the first time I gave my wife a 6 Massages gift card. She told me I could give her one again anytime.
• Get Unique
  Two of my favorite companies to get unique but awesome gifts from are Uncommon Goods and RedEnvelope. I’ve ordered from both a number of times and have never had a bad experience. The best part is that your bound to find something that will make her go “wow” over and over.

These are just a couple of ideas to get you going and thinking beyond the normal. Plus, I can’t give away all my secrets can I?

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