Posts About ‘dads’

ONE Dad in Ghana

Tuesday, May 1st, 2012

Last week, I got to share in one of those journeys that changes a man forever.

The ONE Campaign invited me to travel with them to Ghana as the GAVI Alliance was rolling out two new vaccines across the country.

Ghana is the first country to do this with two vaccines at the same time and thousands of children will be vaccinated against pneumonia and rotovirus in the coming months. It is a huge step forward for the country and ONE had a lot to do with keeping awareness and funding for programs like this alive and well.

When people asked what my job for the week was, I told them that it was a mix of photo journalist, citizen reporter and travel writer. I was there to observe, learn and be inspired. My camera never left my hand except for when I had to write something down in my notebook. Plus it is time that the ONE Moms program expand to include dads as well and I’m officially the first ONE Dad.

Meeting the Chief

We got to see many different aspects of Ghana and projects that are helping the country improve healthcare, agriculture, small business and daily life.

Our journey took us to Africa’s third largest hospital to learn how they are helping HIV+ mothers insure the disease is not passed on to their children. We spent a morning at another hospital that not only helps children recover from acute malnutrition, but also teaches the mothers how to cook meals with local ingredients that will provide more nourishment for their families. There was even a stop by two local entrepreneurs who took their dreams owning their own businesses and made it a reality.

Proud Father

On the last day, we headed out into the mountains to see the vaccines being administered in the field.

Traveling with a mix of journalists and aid workers from around the world made for great conversations. In the two villages we visited, we were greeted by the elders and the initially hesitant but soon enthusiastic children. If you ever want to see the biggest smile in the world, take a photo of a child and show it to them for what might be the first time. They go crazy and it instantly warms your heart.

Jeanine Shows Her Photo

Seeing the moms bringing their babies to the clinics to get their new vaccines was a powerful moment. With so much hardship facing every children in Africa, having two less things to worry about because of the vaccines must be an overwhelming feeling.

Notice that I’ve said “moms” a lot?

That is because while the men of the family are usually the money earners and thus make all of the family decisions. They are not always that active in the welfare of the family, but still make the decisions. It scared me when one speaker was talking about how they must educate fathers why vaccines are so important because if they don’t allow it, the wife would not be allowed to bring the children into a clinic. It is an educational challenge that must be overcome. Getting the information out to all families.

Proud Dad

We went to the US Embassy to receive a briefing from a team at US AID. It was amazing to hear how a part of their activities involve getting permission from dads to allow their wives to farm and do other things to help out their financial situations. I wasn’t that familiar with the work that US AID does, but I can tell you that across the globe they are doing very important work that is helping improve lives on multiple levels.

Meeting the Village Elders

I met lots of parents while in Ghana and every dad I met was a fellow proud father like myself. I wish the trip had allowed for more conversations one on one with them, but we were not there for that so I hope I get to return with a focus there because I think there is a lot of good that could come of it.

I shared thoughts from the field over on my blog and you can view my complete photo collection or I’ve chosen and shared my favorite photos as well.

Ghana is a beautiful country with a lot of opportunity ahead for it. The work that ONE and other organizations like it do is vital to the future of Africa and I sense I’ll be more involved with them in the future. They do great work.

Thank you for having me be part of this!

 

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Huggies Clean Up Their Mess

Monday, April 2nd, 2012

Anyone who knows me, knows that I love being a dad and hate when any company marginalizes the role of dads in the parenting equation. The old stereotypes of the bumbling father who doesn’t know what to do with their kids have got to go.

So, a few weeks back when Huggies launched a new campaign that focused on “putting dads to the test” I wasn’t a fan of it.

They had a television commercial (since pulled) that first got people bent out of shape. I personally didn’t mind the commercial, but understood that they blew it on the copy. Instead of saying that they were putting the diapers to the test it implied that the dads were the ones being tested.

What got me was on their Facebook page they were giving money to moms for inspiring ideas and at the same time picking on dads who needed to be put to the test as a parent. It was the same stereotypes that I hate. I left them a note on their wall sharing my thoughts and then figured I was done with it. My kids are no longer in diapers and we were always a Pampers family so I didn’t really care if Huggies wanted to be a short sighted clueless company.

I figured this was the end of the whole thing for me, but boy was I wrong!

I was scheduled to take the stage at the Dad 2.0 Summit when I got an e-mail from Huggies’ agency Edelman asking if I’d be willing to sit down and talk to representatives from the brand about the situation. I was shocked and skeptical of what they were trying to do. I had never seen any response to mine or many of the comments left on their wall, but since it was obvious they were trying I wanted to give them a chance.

We sat down and chatted about the campaign. Kevin from Huggies came right out and said sorry the minute we sat down. He insisted that they never meant to pick on dads and admitted that the choice of wording was a miss step on their part and that they were pulling the ads and tweaking them. They were also going to go back and change the language throughout the campaign to make sure that it was always their products being put to the test and not the fathers.

The conversation was really good and I have to applaud them for stepping up like this. Big kudos to Edelman as well, because I know from my agency days how often you know what is the right thing to do, but clients don’t always listen and in this case they did.

These guys got on planes at the last minute and came to a conference to talk to the audience they offended. They didn’t hide behind an online post or e-mails. They did the harder thing and faced the issue head on. Way to go!

Unlike my mess with Ragu last year that resulted in nothing but them flipping me a middle finger in my opinion, Huggies took action and took action quick.  More companies could learn from this.

One bit of the conversation I had with them has lead to the video below that Digital Dads has the exclusive premiere of.

They mentioned to me that the men in the commercials were actual dads with their kids. I encouraged them to spotlight this and make a point of saying that because it makes everything they say a bit more genuine. So while this won’t be showing on television anytime soon, they are going to be pushing it out on other channels.

Anyone else find the awesome irony in the subject of this video? I nearly fell on the floor laughing when they sent it to me. I wonder what sauce they used *laugh*

In conclusion, what every brand should learn from this is that we all make mistakes and when they happen you need to own them and address them. In today’s social and connected world you can’t go silent and hide from mistakes. Saying sorry is not easy for anyone and when you are a multi-million dollar brand it is harder, but you still have to do it.

Huggies, thank you for stepping up and being responsible and hearing from our community. While I don’t need your products in my life anymore, I have more respect for you than I did before this whole campaign started! Way to go!

 

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Stay at Home Dads

Tuesday, March 6th, 2012

We are very excited to announce that we’ll be working with The Good Men Project to share some of their great content here at Digital Dads. I think something that doesn’t happen enough online is guys sharing links and exposure to others so that is why we are doing this.

Every week, we’ll share some of their popular posts around a given theme as chosen by the team there.

This week we are focusing on the rise and roles of the modern stay at home dad.

Here are a few links discussing everything from being the only guy in a “mom’s group” to tips on how to still enjoy ‘guy stuff” while being a full time parent:

The Lone Dad in Mom World 
The thought of being the only guy in a group full of moms was probably the most unpalatable thing I could think of up to that point in my life.

The Keys To Stay At Home Dad Success
There are a ton of good reasons to be a stay at home parent. Here’s how to do it well.

Traditionally Radical: The Rise of the Stay-At-Home Dad
A stay-at-home dad is no less of a parent than a stay-at-home mom, so what’s the difference?

Are Stay-at-Home Dads Macho?
In the fourth of a five-part series on love and relationships, Tom Matlack and author Laura Munson debate the question: Are stay-at-home dads macho?

We hope you find these posts informative and fun. Have a theme you’d like to see covered? Let us know!

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Digital Dads NFL Pre-Game: It’s Not Fantasy, It’s Football

Thursday, August 25th, 2011

Will Peyton be able to avoid injury to be a worthy fantasy pick?

Well, by now you’ve read my AFC predictions, and read my NFC predictions. If not, go do that now. I’ll wait.

Ok, welcome back. You can see there are a few surprises on there this year, like the fact that I picked the Lions to actually make the playoffs and my true hatred for the Bucaneers didn’t shine through. Then there are some more obvious picks, like the Packers, Steelers and Patriots making it back to the playoffs with relative ease. I’d also look for Kansas City to do surprisingly well this year, which makes me glad I have Matt Cassel on my first fantasy team.

Speaking about fantasy football, I’m in four leagues this year, two of them pay leagues and I’m running one of those. Being the commish isn’t difficult, until I have to start approving stupid trades. Like the one I offered the other day, hoping to acquire Peyton Hillis, who went very early in our draft. I offered up L.T., who went very late in our draft. I was also a bit surprised that Peyton Manning wasn’t taken until the 13th round or so. Is the possibility for a re-injury that scary that people aren’t drafting him?

Aaron Rodgers has been the number one QB pick in a lot of leagues, as he was in ours. Even though the set rankings had Arian Foster at number one. My number one pick was Calvin Johnson as I was drafting eighth and I knew I wanted a top notch and primary receiver on my team. Plus, I ended up having plenty of choices for QB, ending up with Cassel, Rothlesberger and Josh Freeman. Freeman should have a good year, but I think he’ll throw just as many picks as touchdowns. Rothlesberger is always good for some points, but I think Cassel is going to be the star. Last year his TD to interception ratio was ridiculously good. And if you were wondering, someone did draft Tebow. Last round, a sentimental pick for a Gators fan.

For most fantasy teams, the big questions are coming in at the running back position. There aren’t a lot of backs around the league that are going to be primary ball carriers, so depending on how your league scores, should help you decide which back to pick. If the reward for yards is high, get a back like Shonn Greene. He’s going to be taking most of the handoffs, leaving L.T. to handle the short yardage stuff for the Jets. Then there is Talbert in San Diego who was a surprise break out last year, and should do well again this year, getting the primary load. However, if you can pull someone like Gore or Mendenhall, guys who are going to be primary backs, get ‘em, but you better have a good back up in case they get injured.

There are so many wide receivers out there, you should have no problem getting someone with high stats. Aside from Johnson I also netted Greg Jennings and Hines Ward. You can’t ask for a better receiving core for a fantasy team. I also got Devin Hester, since my league scores for return yards. That’s a huge bonus for a guy like Hester, or Josh Cribbs of the Browns, and Percy Harvin of the Vikings. These guys play both WR and special teams and should net plenty of yards per game. Supplement that with a reliable tight end that gets a fair amount of action, like Ben Watson in Cleveland and you’ve got some serious contention right there.

As far as defense goes (you’ll notice I skipped talking about a kicker, there are 32 starters, pick one) my picks are Detroit or Kansas City. Both these defenses are going to be good, especially Detroit when it comes to sacks. Of course, you can always go with the reliable Steelers D if you can get them. I don’t suggest picking the Bills defense. Another good defense should be Houston, believe it or not. They should be available off waivers.

In other news, Kerry Collins has come out of his short retirement to backup Peyton in Indy. Frankly, I think the Colts made a wise choice because Collins could definitely lead that team to the playoffs. The Colts are nothing without Peyton, but I think they could get by with Collins. Don’t bother picking him up though, as he won’t be starting but maybe the first game.

Next week: Week 1 Predictions! Finally!

SXSW, March Madness, Homefront & More

Wednesday, March 23rd, 2011

Fresh back from a speaking engagement in Las Vegas and having a blast in Austin, TX for SXSW, C.C. has a lot to share and talk about on this weeks episode of Digital Dads TV.

Watch Digital Dads TV live every Monday from 2-3 PM Eastern on The Pulse Network . We’d love for you to be part of the live shows.

Links to everything shown or talked about in the show.

Have someone you think would make a great guest or a service, product or service that you think would be right for our audience? Please e-mail us to let us know about it.



Game of Thrones & The Oscars

Wednesday, March 9th, 2011

In case you didn’t know it, C.C. is a huge movie fan so The Oscars are must watch TV in his house. Of course, that means they are going to be a hot topic for the latest episode of Digital Dads TV.

Plus, as you know, I received this awesome package from HBO’s Game of Thrones and I had to show it off so that everyone could get a better feel for what it was about.

Watch Digital Dads TV live every Monday from 2-3 PM Eastern on The Pulse Network . We’d love for you to be part of the live shows.

Links to everything shown or talked about in the show.

Have someone you think would make a great guest or a service, product or service that you think would be right for our audience? Please e-mail us to let us know about it.



Back in the Studio for Digital Dads TV

Wednesday, January 26th, 2011

I’ve been on the road as part of the Content Rules Book Tour and last week’s planned show from Montreal ended up not being possible when my flight got delayed.

So, this episode of Digital Dads TV finds me in The Pulse Network studios for the first time in 2011. I had so much content that I wanted to catch everyone up on that I couldn’t squeeze in a guest. Enjoy the show and links to everything can be found below.

Don’t forget that Digital Dads TV is live every Monday from 2-3 PM Eastern on The Pulse Network so tune in and be part of the live show.

Links to everything shown or talked about in the show.

Have someone you think would make a great guest or a service, product or service that you think would be right for our audience? Please e-mail us to let us know about it.

Whirlpool Sucks, But Pert Breasts Don’t

Wednesday, October 13th, 2010

Digital Dads TV is a weekly show highlighting whatever is on my mind and that I think guys of the world will enjoy. This week had a special guest talking about his new book for fathers and I entered the studio more wired then usual so the whole show kicked off with massive rant. Watch and enjoy.

You can watch DDTV live every Monday from 2-3 PM EST on The Pulse Network.

Links and other goodies from the show:

You never know what next week might hold. Interested in being a guest or want to sponsor the show?  E-mail us and we’ll see what we can do together.

I Have a Penis = I Am Not a Mom

Thursday, January 7th, 2010

Mom and Dad both have three letters and describe someone who has children, but in many ways they are very different words.

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This post is not a slight against Walt Disney. It is a brand that I love and had a blast last summer when our family took our vacation there for the first time. So please do not take this as a slam against them, because so many brands do this, but they were the ones the broke the camel’s back.

Yesterday on Twitter I saw several women I know tweeting about a Social Media program that Disney was doing and an e-mail address to reach out to for more information. It was clearly a mom focused program from what I could see, but I still dropped them a note asking if I as a Dad might be interested in whatever it was that was going on.

I got a great reply saying that of course Dads were welcomed and to watch my e-mail for more information.

Then today I received an e-mail with the subject line: Social Media Moms Celebration at Walt Disney World!

It was, of course, an invitation sent to me.

Again, this is NOT about Disney, because the event looks amazing and very smartly put together. In fact the programming sounds like something I’d love to attend. But, the fact that I’m not part of any of that subject line means that the event is not of interest to me. I don’t know why it couldn’t be about Social Media Parents or Social Media Moms & Dads instead.

I love moms. My wife is one of the most amazing women in the world. I hug my mother every time I see her. I’m friends with lots of women who are great moms.

But, guess what? I am not a mom. I’ve got the wrong plumbing to be a mother. As a guy I’m a Dad, Father, Pops, Padre or whatever word you want. Something I can never be is a “mom.”

I remember right after I launched this site I was asked if I would ever join a “PR for Moms” group. I didn’t know the woman all that well, but I chuckled a bit and said that I wouldn’t because I’m not a mom. If it was a “PR for Parents” group I’d join up in a heart beat.

Sure, maybe I’m splitting hairs and harping on technicalities, but I’m sick of the Dads being left out of the parenting equation. I’m an active Dad. Most of the guys out there that I know are also active parts of the parenting equation. Yes, Moms make a ton of decisions and in a majority of households probably control the checkbook as well. But, companies need to wake up that Dads every day are becoming more and more involved in these decisions.

This is not the 1950′s when men went off to work in a suit and hat and the women stayed at home in an apron with the kids. We’ve all moved beyond that and yet brands only want to talk to the moms.

Want to talk to a Dad? I’m right here.

Being A Dad

Sunday, June 21st, 2009

Being a good father is the single hardest thing a man can strive for in this world. It is also the most rewarding thing in life for a guy.

You’ll never hear me call being a father “a job” because it is so much more then that. It is a responsibility, a blessing and a great joy,but it is never ever a job.

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It is Father’s Day morning 2009 and as I read through the paper, quickly checked in online and watched the morning news I got very reflective about being a Dad. I’ve got Harry Chapin’s Greatest Stories Live playing on iTunes because it always makes me think of my Dad. I have fond memories of hearing this for the first time in the DIY installed tape deck my Dad had put in our blue pick up. He’d never consider himself a “maker” but looking back he sure does have a DIY streak that runs through him.

My Father was very active in my life (and still is). He was tough, but also allowed me to live. I try to remember that now with my kids. Letting them go out and make mistakes is a critical thing, but not an easy thing because you know they are going to get hurt, fail and struggle, but they need to in order to really make it in this world. The only way to learn how to pull yourself back up is if you fall down first.

I look around me and I see a million different ways to be a Dad. Not all I agree with, but you’ll never hear me question someone either. The reason we have so many different people in the world is why we have so many different Dads. I’ve always said that normal is boring and that holds true here. As long as a Dad is active in their child’s life, then how they do it I am not going to question. “To each their own…” is a saying my Dad taught me.

But, what does upset me is how Dads seem to get to play second fiddle in the parenting landscape for a lot of people and that is something I just won’t stand for. Yes, there are plenty of horrible and inattentive fathers out there, but they are not the only ones missing in some kids lives. Some people were just not made to be parents and that stretches beyond just guys.

So, today here on Father’s Day 2009 I really want to see all of us online fathers to band together and figure out how we can break the sterotype of the bumbling guy, laying on the couch, mowing the lawn and not doing that much more. Most of the Dads that I know are much more active then that and I want to figure out how we can work together to make that known by all. I don’t have all the answers, but I certainly know I want to see some change.

To all the Dads out there I want to wish you a very Happy Father’s Day. Sure, we don’t need a holiday, but the homemade gifts, silly poems and ties dure do make for a great morning. We celebrated with French Toast and this afternoon I’ll be going to the closing perfomance of my daughters play. Yesterday I got to see my father and my father-in-law. It has been a great weekend and I hope each of you is having as good of a day.

Work hard. Play harder. Be a great Dad!

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