Posts About ‘Books’

Avoid a Vacation Tragedy – Keep Your Family Safe

Wednesday, May 23rd, 2012

David Potts was 44 years old with a fiancée and a baby. The couple’s trip to Maui would be their last big hurrah before she would undergo the double mastectomy designed to save her life. While visiting one of the island’s better known natural tourist attractions, the geyser-like Nakalele Blowhole, Potts was knocked into the ocean by a freak wave. In an instant, David Potts was gone. His body never to be found.

When it happened, I was only a few miles down the coast from the spot where David Potts lost his life. As the story of a man dying tragically in an instant while enjoying his vacation splashed news sites in Hawaii and around the globe, I became haunted by a terrible thought:

It could have been me.

When I got home, I began looking into vacation tragedies and I have to tell you I was absolutely stunned by what I discovered. For example, did you know that over 170 people have vanished without a trace from cruise ships since 1995? I’m not talking about obvious drunken stumbles off the promenade deck into the ocean’s cold embrace. I mean dozens of unsolved and highly suspicious cases including one where a woman’s beaded purse was found ripped and a ship’s map had been deliberately taped over the lens of the nearest security camera.

Even more alarming are those horrific vacation tragedy incidents involving children whose lives are senselessly stolen, killed due to resort negligence and seemingly-preventable causes, like the 12 year old boy who was sucked into an unprotected twelve inch wide drainage pipe at a major Cancun hotel’s snorkeling lagoon, his body folded in half by the immense suction. Or the 5 year old girl improperly given CPR by poorly trained Atlantis resort lifeguards in an incident suspected of causing her death.

By revealing these all-too-true stories to you, I am not trying to do for vacations what “Jaws” did for beaches. The incidents I discovered, especially those involving children of all ages, ended up becoming the basis for my latest non-fiction book, “Fatal Sunset: Deadly Vacations.” Simply put, “Fatal Sunset” is made up of true cautionary tales. It is filled with lessons for those willing to better understand how to identify, and hopefully avoid, similar tragic circumstances.

 

Researching and writing this book has helped me understand that recognition of certain circumstances while traveling can often be the difference between life and death. This is exactly why my new motto, thanks to this book, has become, “Dare to be aware” and why I would like to leave you with the top 10 list of Dare to Be Aware travel tips.

  • Tip 1: Never assume you have the same rights, protections and access to emergency services in other countries as you do in your own
  • Tip 2: Take the time to check out any attractions your children may use before you leave them unsupervised
  • Tip 3: Always let someone know where you’re going and how long you’ll be gone. If you’re on a trip, make sure someone in your party knows when you’ll be back and check in with them if those plans change
  • Tip 4: Don’t assume that video cameras are there to protect you – They are only there to protect the interests of the property owners who may have a different agenda when it comes to revealing what those cameras have seen
  • Tip 5: Just because there isn’t a warning sign, doesn’t mean there isn’t danger – Use your common sense and/or double check your plans with someone who knows the lay of the land
  • Tip 6: Do your research – Any reputable company offering trips, excursions, tours will have a digital footprint on the Internet. Use Google to search for reviews before you use them
  • Tip 7: Be suspicious of anyone who takes too much interest in you or your family – If someone you really don’t know invites you to join them in an excursion somewhere, don’t be afraid to turn them down. There are worse things than offending someone who you will probably never see again
  • Tip 8: If going out of the country, check for government issued travel advisories for your destination. If the state department says someplace is unsafe, take heed
  • Tip 9: Being on vacation doesn’t turn you into Superman – Don’t try doing anything that may be more physically involved than something you would do at home
  • Tip 10: Always listen and be kind to your flight attendant – He or she has much more experience than you in dealing with onboard emergencies and situations. Their help could save your life!

FATAL SUNSET: Deadly Vacations is available for Kindle, Nook, iBooks, in Paperback and in audiobook form at Audible, Amazon and iTunes.

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Great Summer Reads: Parents Behaving Badly

Monday, May 16th, 2011

This is the first of several recommended books I’ll be previewing for the upcoming summer of reading you only wish you had time to do.

 

As I was preparing several columns for Digital Dad that focused on good summer sports reads I found one that I had to feature now. If you have a child that’s about to play or is playing baseball, this novel is not only timely, but it reads like so many experiences we’ve had or are now having on Little League fields across the country.

Scott Gummer, the author of this, his first novel, Parents Behaving Badly, has intertwined the reality of what most of us parents experience during numerous games & seasons of youth sports, in combination with the everyday struggles a man has with midlife marriage.

The interesting thing about youth sports are the people/adults you share it with over the course of years your child spends participating. These events combined with the most ridiculous childish behavior displayed by adults is not only laugh out loud entertaining but so close to real that you’ll have no problem associating several book characters with a parent or two in your community.

Let’s take for example the coach of the team, Del Mann. There is one of these guys in just about every league where a kid signs up to play. He cheats at the draft, he asks kids that he deems unable to perform to deliberately get hit by pitches, he berates them, and he only cares about winning. Sound familiar?

Though much of this is common place and would hold very little entertainment value if it were not for the brilliant way Gummer creates an entertaining and hilarious dialogue of outrageous remarks that we all must admit we think about saying, but never dare say it. In other words, it’s a way to live through these characters rather than telling your neighbors how you really feel.

And of course this novel could not be complete if Gummer did not capture the midlife male crisis of fantasizing and lusting after the hottest single moms on the sidelines, and the affairs that occur in front of the entire town.

Unlike other youth sports books that rehash the issues, Parents Behaving Badly, takes a different approach of hitting upon the issues in a way where you forget the characters are fictional, because in reality they very much exist.

As you sit in your lawn chair or the bleachers watching others make fools of themselves, or even finding yourself doing the same, pick up Parents Behaving Badly, and find joy in laughing at your neighbors, or yourself.

Check out Scott Gummer’s other books at ScottGummer.com.

Father Dominic’s Thursday Night Pizza

Saturday, February 19th, 2011

Growing up we would go out for pizza only on special occasions. Even now that I have my own family we only have it when I’m not feeling up to cooking that night and we can’t agree on where we should go.

Still, pizza is the perfect food. A convenient, hand held delivery device for any number of flavor combinations. The perfectly crispy, yet still chewy, crust, the melted cheese and whatever toppings strikes your mood can get you through pretty much anything – a late night studying, an office meeting that has gone into extra innings – again, or the perfect compensation to the friends that just helped you move.

I’ve had pizza on my mind a lot lately thanks to Thursday Night Pizza: Father Dominic’s Favorite Pizza Recipes, a book that I recently received to review. In his latest tome Father Dominic Garramone offers up a number of his favorite recipes for crusts and sauces, as well as ways to use them to create appetizers, pizzas and even desserts. It was a fun, quick read that gives you a little insight into how Father Dominic got started as the purveyor of pies at his Abbey.

When I think of pizza night I tend to think of either Friday or Saturday nights, because that is what I grew up with. However, in monastic life, Friday is a day of fast and abstinence where every week but Easter week the monks only eat one full meal and abstain from meat. So, for the past twenty years or so Father Dominic has been honing his craft on Thursday nights, which is Hautus (derived from the Latin hausere that means to be filled or satisfied) for a community night of snacks, games and bonding.

The closest I’ve ever come to homemade pizza has been when I’ve picked up a ball of dough at Trader Joe’s. Those pizzas have been good, but I’ve always wanted to try my hand at making a dough. Thanks to Father Dominic I’ll soon be giving it a try.

Denver Diner Pizza

recipe courtesy of Father Dominic Garramone

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14oz. American style crust (recipe from book)
⅓ cup Bechamel sauce
½ cup each diced ham and tomato
¼ cup each chopped green pepper and onion
1 cup shredded cheddar cheese
3 cups shredded mozzarella
5 or 6 raw eggs

Assemblage

  1. Roll dough out into a 12” to 14” crust with a thicker outer edge. Place on a pizza peel well dusted with cornmeal.
  2. Brush on Bechamel sauce, then top with ham, tomato, onion and peppers
  3. Sprinkle cheddar cheese on top, then the mozzarella
  4. Bake on a pizza stone in a preheated 500 degree oven for three minutes – just long enough to get the mozzarella to begin to melt.
  5. Spray the bottom of a cup or glass with non-stick spray and press five or six divots into the half-melted cheese; crack an egg into each divot.
  6. Carefully slide back into the oven and bake until eggs are over-easy.

About Father Dominic

Father Dominic Garramone is a Benedictine priest and monk of Saint Bede Abbey in Peru, Illinois. Following a college education in theatre, he entered the monastery in 1983 and was ordained a priest in 1992. He is well know to public televisin viewers for his cooking series “Breaking Bread with Father Dominic”, which aired from 1999 to 2002. He is also the author of “Brother Jerome and the Angels in the Bakery” and “‘Tis the Season to be Baking: Christmas Reflections and Bread Recipes”.

Disclosure: I received a free copy of Thursday Night Pizza: Father Dominic’s Favorite Pizza Recipes from Reedy Press to review. No other compensation was received or promises were made to me in exchange for my review. All opinions contained herein are my own.

Whirlpool Sucks, But Pert Breasts Don’t

Wednesday, October 13th, 2010

Digital Dads TV is a weekly show highlighting whatever is on my mind and that I think guys of the world will enjoy. This week had a special guest talking about his new book for fathers and I entered the studio more wired then usual so the whole show kicked off with massive rant. Watch and enjoy.

You can watch DDTV live every Monday from 2-3 PM EST on The Pulse Network.

Links and other goodies from the show:

You never know what next week might hold. Interested in being a guest or want to sponsor the show?  E-mail us and we’ll see what we can do together.

Father’s Day Gifts: Books

Thursday, June 17th, 2010

I love to read and my bookshelves have always been overflowing with books that I hope to some day get to. Ever since I bought my first Kindle, I continue to buy books, but now they stack up in the cloud of the Internet with the same hope of someday being read. I also usually have more then one book going at any given time. In fact right now I’m reading Medium Raw and Delivering Happiness. Talk about two different extremes.

Giving books as a present is something I love doing. I think it really shows how well you know someone, when you can pick the perfect book out for them. I know this year I bought my Dad a couple of books for Father’s Day and when I saw them I knew they were perfect for him. He got them early and reacted just as I had hoped for.

All the links below are affiliate links, but of course you can buy them from wherever it is that you love to buy books. We think these would make great gifts for any Dad on your shopping list.

The Pioneer Woman Cooks

Don’t be distracted by the title of this book or the beautiful and talented Ree Drummond on the cover, this is a cookbook that any guy would love to have in his kitchen. Full of hearty, tasty and down right sinful recipes, this is my favorite cookbook I own (and I own a lot of them). I’m a huge fan of Ree’s photography and it fills the pages with step-by-step shots of each recipe so even the newest of cooks can figure out if they are on the right track or not. Her laid back, sometimes snarky commentary makes it fun to read as well. If you are unsure about this book, you’ll want it for the cinnamon roll recipe at a minimum. They’ve become a favorite in our house.

Heroes for My Son

Kodak sent us a couple of these books to give away, but I had already looked through it at the store and fallen in love with it. Each page highlights an individual that the author Brad Meltzer views as a hero for his son. There are world leaders, sports figures and politicians between the pages as well as a few personal ones. I found this book highly inspirational and while anyone would enjoy this book it would be perfect for the new father in your life. After Father’s Day, we’ll be holding a contest to give away a couple of signed copies, so stay tuned.

Shedworking

Every guy dreams of having their own space. It might be a room in the basement, something set up in the garage or their own full blown man town. But, another alternative is a whole new room in the backyard. The idea of shedworking is that what use to be just to store your lawnmower and shovel, the concept of a “shed” has evolved into something totally new as more people look for alternatives to commuting to an office. Full of photos and imagination this one is a surprise that keeps on giving. Of course now I’m eager to try one of these out in the woods behind my house.

Geek Dad

We are all fans of GeekDad.com (bookmark it now!) so when they sent us a copy of this book we were excited to read it. You’ll never have to go looking for a kid’s science project idea if you own this book. From start to finish it is filled with fun projects that a dad and his kids can do together. Everything from building the best slip n’ slide to building a lamp out of LEGO. A warning though that the minute your kids get a hold of this, you might be instantly busy with new things as they will want to start doing the projects right away. *grin*

1,000 Places to See in the U.S.A. & Canada Before You Die

The name sort of says it all doesn’t it? There is also a global edition, but the reality of visiting most of those is beyond my grasp, so I recommend this one as something with more fun close to home. Organized by state or province, we found it fun to see what they suggested people do in our home states and actually discovered some things that we had never done before. We all have our personal bucket lists, so why not give 1,000 more items to add to the list?

The Council of Dads

I’ve never had a book make me tear up in the first three pages before, but this one certainly did. I actually first heard of this book while flipping through the in-flight magazine of all places. The author who is the father to two little girls finds out that he has terminal cancer and sets out to put in place a council of other fathers that when he is gone can help raise and influence his kids. It forced me to wonder if I was in a similar situation who would I choose with such a deeply personal task? This is not an easy read because of the constant swing of emotions, but it is one you should make the time for.

Emergency

Are you ready in case there is a natural disaster in your area? What if a terrorist attack took out the power grid and you had to survive on your own. Could you do it? These are the types of questions the author asked himself as he wrote this story/how to guide for a variety of situations. Described as “one man’s story of a dangerous world–and how to stay alive in it” I found it to be a fun and informative read. It isn’t a dry, boring how to manual, but you will certainly learn how to be more prepared from reading it.

Now, these are just some of our favorites this year that we’ve read and think would make great gifts, but what are others. We’d love to hear from you what should have been on the list or what we should keep on our radar for upcoming birthdays and holidays for the guys on our lists?

Save Reading Is Fundamental

Friday, February 19th, 2010

I love books. Ever since I was a young child I’ve spent hours escaping into the pages of a good book. Even though I do more reading on the screen of my Kindle now, the experience is just the same and I’m making sure that my children are avid readers as well.

That is why when I heard that President Obama’s 2011 Budget cuts all funding for Reading is Fundamental (RIF) I was saddened.

Do you remember RIF? I do. It was always a great day at school because we’d go down to the gymnasium and have the power to pick out a single book for free. It was so hard to choose just one book to take because they always had so many good ones. Buying books was something of a luxury for me and while I’d check them out of the library at an alarming rate (we lived across the street), I cherished the days that RIF came to school.

Founded in 1966, RIF distributes 15 million books annually to children. Funded by Congress since 1975, RIF maintains programs in schools, community centers, hospitals,  and military bases. They have roughly 400,000 volunteers that maintain their 17,000 locations. They do a LOT of good for the country.

But, with the proposed budget all of their funding will be cut and their program will more then likely have to shut down. I don’t want to see this happen and I have a strong feeling that many of you don’t want it to either.

There is a letter writing campaign going on and they’ve made it as easy as a few clicks to e-mail your government officials about this.

To show your support please go to www.Rif.og/SaveRIF

National Geographic Kids Almanac 2010

Friday, December 18th, 2009

natgeo-2010-almanacI grew up looking through copies of National Geographic at the library and my aunt’s house. I’m sure for most of us, the signature yellow cover instantly pops in our head when we hear the name. I know even today I look forward to the arrival of the newest issue every month to our house.

That is why last year when we discovered they were now doing full color almanacs for kids we bought a copy right away. The kids loved looking through all the pictures and more then once would ask us, “did you know?” and then share some fact they had just learned about from the book.

National Geographic Kids is a whole new brand focused on the same teaching about the world we live in, but in a way that is much more digestible for kids. The site has games, videos, stories and more to keep kids coming back and learning at the same time. Their yearly almanacs are a great addition to any house that has kids in it. Trust me that you won’t be disappointed.

They sent me one of the 2010 editions and I was happy to see a lot of new information for the kids. I’m actually planning on giving this copy to some relatives for Christmas since I don’t think they have a copy in their house and I think they would really benefit from it. Shhh…don’t tell them.

One of the great things about when I got contacted by National Geographic is that they are allowing us to give away a copy to the readers of Digital Dads. I don’t think it’ll get to you before Christmas, but it’ll make a great birthday or just because gift as well.

All you need to do to enter is leave a comment on this post and we’ll pick a winner at random.

If you want to learn a bit more about the 2010 Almanac watch this video to get the full flavor of it.

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