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Considering Cabo

Wednesday, March 13th, 2013

If the name Cabo conjures of image of consuming cerveza during college spring break at joints with names like El Squid Roe, it’s time to re-boot. Cabo is cool. Or more accurately, it’s hot, as temperatures this time of year average around 80 degrees during the day. The climate is ideal for taking full advantage of the splendid beaches, water sports and the many resorts that offer stunning views of the Baja coastline.

Just a part of Cabo’s natural appeal is its unusual and striking geology – it’s officially a tropical desert climate – formed by the juxtaposition of the desert with the Sea of Cortes. True, it has become a tourist mecca, but if you know how to navigate you will doubtless find diversions and delicacies to delight you.

Here are eight ways to enjoy a Cabo vacation.

EAT WELL
1. Flora’s Field Kitchen in San José del Cabo is not particularly easy to get to. You might even find the driving directions somewhat intimidating (“fourth traffic circle…cement plant…dirt road up the hill…). It can also be challenging to get a reservation in peak season. However, the easy solution is to book early and hire a taxi, because Flora’s is so worth the trip.

The restaurant is situated on the very farm from which it sources its ripe ingredients. The chefs cook what they harvest, so everything changes by season. It doesn’t get any more “eat local” than this. Not only is the freshest food perfectly prepared, it is served professionally in a magical outdoor setting that has a relaxed but lively vibe. Yes, that’s Ray Romano and crew at the next table, and George Clooney was here the night before with Jennifer Aniston — but you don’t go to Flora because it has been discovered by the Hollywood elite. You go for glorious homemade food in a charming, outdoor locale.

You might begin with an inventive seasonal cocktail, perhaps a martini infused with house-made lavender bitters, or a beet-ginger margarita that sounds odd but works well. Crostini — one with chicken liver pâté and pickles, one with caponata and ricotta — were sublime starters. The arugula salad with red onion, candied pecan, and goat cheese was dressed with a sprightly vinaigrette, a savory composition of taste and textures — and do not miss the wood-fired pizzas. Our version was made with mozzarella topped by a mound of the freshest arugula dressed lightly with a lemony vinaigrette and Parmesan. Main courses include daily specials (spaghetti and spicy meatballs with homemade marinara, perhaps, and an ever-changing the fish of the day), as well as an oven-roasted pork chop or half organic chicken (bred on the farm), both tender and succulent. Dinners come family-style, with a fabulous array of vegetables. Creamed greens, old-fashioned mashed potatoes, and oven-roasted root vegetables all satisfy deeply. Save room for dessert, too. You won’t be disappointed by the coconut cream pie, the chocolate cake, or any of the others. All in all, I can’t say enough about Flora’s. This is beautiful eating.

2. Mi Casa, in San José del Cabo’s art district, serves authentic regional Mexican cuisine in a casual open-air courtyard, heated by gas lamps, if necessary. Don’t be put off the strolling Mexican trio playing “Guantanamera.” Your meal will be mighty tasty. It might begin with the queso fundido, a small vat of melted Monterrey cheese mixed with pico de gallo and perked up by a splash of tequila. Of course there are all manner of ceviches, tacos, tostadas, enchiladas, and the like, as well as the classic soups of Mexico, like the sopa de tortilla or frijoles negros, otherwise known as black beans.

The grilled foods are well-seasoned and skillfully prepared. La sabana de pollo al carbón, pounded and grilled chicken breast, was flavorful for such a simple piece of protein, and my grilled rabbit, on the evening’s list of specials, was as good as any I can recall. The classic cochinita pibil of shredded pork was exemplary and you can’t get hurt by camarones jumbos — jumbo shrimp — however they’re prepared. The pastel de tres leches (“three-milk cake”) is a sweet ending.

3. Located well off the tourist routes in Cabo San Lucas, La Fonda also cooks up the Mexican classics. But this is not your typical local establishment. Starting with a strong margarita, you’ll recognize many of the usual standards of the Mexican kitchen, such as enchiladas and tacos, but executed at a high level. This is a real opportunity, though, for the more daring eaters to sample chapulines and gusanos, i.e., grasshoppers and worms, respectively. Or huitlacoche, known to us gringos as corn fungus. If that’s not to your taste, there’s no need to worry; the chef is dishing out genuine gastronomy. The 48-ingredient mole was a textbook example of the genre, enriched by ground nuts and cocoa, served with your choice of either chicken or pork. The lobster in soft tacos did not disappoint. From savory soups and sandwiches to serious sauces, this is the kind of excellent Mexican restaurant you wish you had in your own town.

La Fonda
Miguel Hidalgo Matamoros 23410
Cabo San Lucas, Baja California Sur, Mexico‎
+52 624 143 6926

PLAY WELL
4. Swim with the dolphins. If you’ve ever dreamt of cavorting with Flipper, there are two operations around Cabo where they’l take you for a ride. Literally. Get your wetsuit on and get in the water with these absolutely remarkable mammals. You spend an hour playing with them and they’ll take you for a spin around the water. The constant smiles on the kids’ faces made it worth the price. You have two options: one is Cabo Dolphins in downtown Cabo and the other is Ocean Riders in San Jose del Cabo. Cabo Dolphins felt a bit more “packaged”, and takes place in a huge pool, whereas Ocean Riders runs a more intimate experience from an enclosed area in the sea.

5. If you prefer to stay dry, you might appreciate a few hours whale watching, also offered by the aforementioned Ocean Riders in San Jose del Cabo. There is something uniquely spectacular about jetting around on a zippy, rubberized boat (that seats about 15) while chasing 50-foot long, 20-ton whales on a beautiful day at sea. Of course the payoff is when you behold these immense sea creatures doing their thing. For the less motion-inclined, there are also lovely sailboats and larger motorized vessels that offer similar sightings.

6. Speaking of motorized, get me on an ATV scooting and pouncing around the desert and I’m a happy camper. There are undoubtedly closer-by options, but we opted for the 45-minute ride to Motosol. In a word, wow. Be ready for a bumpy, yet beautiful 2-hour guided ride through the Baja that culminates with a glorious spin on the shoreline. Yes, there is a small element of potential danger involved, and a modicum of skill required, but if you’re feeling adventurous, this is the real deal.

SLEEP WELL
7. You can find every major hotel chain in this part of the world, but if you’re among the fortunate who are feeling flush, you might consider lodging in luxury at one of the full-service resorts. The Esperanza offers sweeping views that overlook the dramatic coastline. Comfortable and spacious rooms include all the usual high-end amenities. Some even come with their own pools, but most guests congregate at one of the three large ones on the property, one of which is reserved for adults only. A stunning vista is the featured highlight throughout, from a bountiful breakfast buffet to outdoor cocktails and dinner at sunset…even making s’mores on the shore by night. Of course, with fine restaurants, a very well-equipped gym and spa, and helpful service, you can find any number of ways to revel in the splendor.

8. The One & Only Palmilla is special. Recognized by Conde Nast Traveler as the top resort in the region, some accommodations come with your own infinity pool…as well as your own butler. Think of it as a personal concierge. With a ratio of two employees for every guest, it’s clear they take their hospitality seriously. To say that the surroundings are lush and magnificent is an understatement. Whether you choose to fall asleep on a hammock implanted on the beach, enjoy a round of golf on their Jack Nicklaus designed 27-hole layout or just grab an ice cold cocktail at your seat in the pool, The One & Only is every bit about your leisurely pleasure. Three restaurants serve fine cuisine and libations; the gym and well-appointed spa can be used to compensate. Or better yet, lounge on the pristine sand under the Mexican sun as the pelicans fly above and contemplate the good fortune of your existence.

Photo Credit: The Los Cabos Convention and Visitors Bureau

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Daddy and Daughter Road Trip

Friday, July 20th, 2012

I do a lot of traveling in my life. Between meeting with clients, speaking engagements and press events I’m away from home quite a bit.

Earlier this week though I got to do something I’ve longed hoped for. The planets aligned and I was able to take my daughter on a trip with me.

My wife is away attending a conference and my son is at summer camp. So, when Syracuse University contacted me about speaking to their communications teams, I agreed to do it as long as they didn’t mind my daughter coming along as well. They loved the idea and everything was set in motion.

To say that we were both excited about this would be an understatement. The past weeks have had us saying to each other “I can’t wait!” over and over. My son got sick of this because he has always wanted to go on a trip with me and I look forward to making that a reality some day.

The plan was to wake up whenever we did and then hit the road. My speaking wasn’t until the following day at lunch time so we had no schedule that we had to stick to. We’d stop to eat when we were hungry and if anything caught our eye we’d pull over.

Now, from where we live to Syracuse is not all that exciting of a trip. You literally get on I-90 and head west. That is it.

Daddy & Daughter Road Trip to Syracuse, NY

We stopped at Dunkin Donuts to get our morning fuel and then we were off.

Emily read and doodled while I got comfy for the five hour drive ahead of us. We have a game where she’ll ask for something crazy to draw and then she does. While it wasn’t crazy, I asked her to drive a flag for the trip which you see above. I love how she made the C in our name.

Daddy & Daughter Road Trip to Syracuse, NY

Massachusetts passed by rather quickly. We took a quit pit stop in the Berkshires to fill up on gas. Emily requested sunflower seeds. Little did I know that this is her current road trip snack of choice. Oh, the things you’ll learn!

I love the drive through New York.

You make your way over and through mountains while surrounded by beautiful and hilly farm land on all sides. I spotted windmills in the distance and we had fun watching them spin on the horizon. Plus, for a long stretch of time you follow the Hudson River which of course is beautiful.

Daddy & Daughter Road Trip to Syracuse, NY

My stomach was rumbling, but Emily was engrossed in to her book. I decided that whenever she stopped reading we would stop for lunch. We passed several small towns that looked promising, but she was still reading so I sang along to the radio and waited.

She finally looked up and closed her book. “This is getting really good,” she announced.

“Want to stop and grab some lunch?”

“Sure!”

We determined that the next exit we’d get off at. It turned out to be in Utica, NY.

The very first thing I noticed was a sign for Saranac Brewery Tours and I got excited. I love their beer and I’m not one to pass up a brewery tour. I also noticed the Amtrak station and an Adirondack Scenic Railroad which sounded like a lot of fun. Sadly, there was no way of finding the brewery since the signs didn’t have an address or anything like that, so lunch became our only priority.

Driving around Utica reminded me how hard much of America has been hit. While there were plenty of businesses that looked like they were doing ok, there was an equal number boarded up buildings and for sale signs.

It seems that in Utica most restaurants are not opened for lunch on Tuesdays. We drove all over and every time we spotted a place it wasn’t open. Our prospects were looking pretty dim.

Finally we spotted Master Pizza and aimed for it. While we both were hoping for a diner or small town dive, we had to settle for this. Thankfully it was pretty good pizza. Emily got a slice of cheese and I got two slices of buffalo chicken.

Only place we could find open for lunch in Utica

After a bit of a leg stretch, we got back on the highway with only an hour left until our final destination.

We pulled into the Syracuse Sheraton and checked in. Of course we then proceeded to do what Chapmans always do in every new hotel room. A back flop onto the bed. They were super comfy!

Daddy & Daughter Road Trip to Syracuse, NY

I took a few minutes to check email and other things to make sure all was well. I’d have more time later to really dive in so it was a quick scan so we could get out and see what was going on. Sadly, after checking all the local attractions they seemed to either not have much going on or were closed. Plus it was over 100 degrees out so walking around wasn’t really in the cards.

I contacted the person who brought me up to speak and we decided to meet as she headed out of work for the day. We chatted a bit about the event and how many people were coming. She thankfully gave me some great suggestions on things we could do.

Leaving everything in our room except for our cameras, Emily and I headed out to Armory Square to walk around. They had told us that there were lots of great shops and things to see. They were right.

Daddy & Daughter Road Trip to Syracuse, NY

Daddy & Daughter Road Trip to Syracuse, NY

Daddy & Daughter Road Trip to Syracuse, NY

Daddy & Daughter Road Trip to Syracuse, NY

QR Code Mural?

I’m sure on a Friday night this area gets hopping. There were several brew pubs, restaurants and an assortments of shops.

Emily had a blast in an accessory store where she bought a new toe ring. The woman behind the counter made quite the impression when she noticed that Emily’s purse had a broken snap on it. She grabbed her hot glue gun and fixed it up in a jiffy. “It is amazing how just being nice is such a simple thing.” Emily stated as we walked out. Yup, she is my kid!

We played in the fountains and marved at the Niagara Mohawk Power Building. We just strolled around and took it all in.

Niagara Power Building

Daddy & Daughter Road Trip to Syracuse, NY

“Want to find this Dinosour BBQ place that everyone is talking about?” I asked to which I got a nod.

I pulled out my iPhone and saw that it was listed as only .2 miles from where we were. I looked around and laughed as I could see it a couple of blocks from where we stood.

Dinosaur BBQ - Syracuse, NY

Dinosaur BBQ - Syracuse, NY

I love a good meal and quality barbecue is one of the best. Any place that is packed on a Tuesday night has to be good and we were not disappointed at all.

Creole deviled eggs for an appetizer followed by a sampler plate of brisket, ribs, pulled pork and macaroni and cheese filled our happy bellies. Plus, we washed it all down with some quality high end soda. Emily went for the cream soda, but I had my favorite black cherry.

Walking off dinner was a priority, so we decided to do it by seeing the Syracuse campus. It is a neat mix of old stone buildings and modern structures. You can see what it looked like through my lens if you want.

The Communications Building at Syracuse is AWESOME

It was fascinating to see what caught Emily’s eye. It filled me with pride to watch her move to find her shot and get frustrated when she couldn’t find it. Teaching her some basic macro photography skills and lighting tips was a personal highlight for me. I can’t wait to see her photos!

Daddy & Daughter Road Trip to Syracuse, NY

We had thought about going to the movies, but opted to cuddle up in our room and watch something from pay per view. She chose The Pirates! Band of Misfits. Surprisingly it was quite funny and we both enjoyed it.

Morning came and while she slept, I was wide awake and jumped on the computer to get some work done. When she woke up, we hit the restaurant in the hotel for a quick bite to eat. She liked that I encouraged us to go down in what we were wearing instead of having to shower first.

After breakfast, we showered and packed everything up. I had seen the night before where I was talking and it was directly across the street. Of course we got there early, but I hate being late. Emily kicked back playing Amazing Alex for the first time while I went through my talk in my head one last time.

Emily playing her first game of Amazing Alex

Turns out that Emily got to be a bit of a rock star while I was talking as she had an intern assigned to her. They headed over to Varsity Pizza for lunch and afterwards found a cookie truck that she couldn’t stop smiling about.

My talk went great and the crowd had a ton of questions. After I was done a few of them even came up to thank me for Content Rules because they had got so much from reading it. That never gets old hearing and fills me with pride every time.

After a quick stop by the book store (I had to get something Syracuse Lacrosse for Dylan!) we got in the car for the long drive home.

Thankfully Emily slept for part of the trip since I know how fast that can make a trip go.

When she woke up I asked about dinner and we got off at the next exit which found us in Lee, Massachusetts. Unlike our last pull off the highway meal town this one was picturesque small town New England. We parked the car and began walking up the street to see what caught our eye.

Main Street - Lee, MA

We opted for Salmon Run Fish House because we are both seafood lovers and it sounded pretty good.

They were a bit surprised we didn’t have reservations and told us it would be a thirty minute wait. It ended up being about ten minutes and we sat down and drooled over the menu.

Unfortunately they were out of the crab legs that Emily was craving. We munched down on a plate of perfect onion rings followed by seafood alfredo pasta for her and a baked seafood sampler for me. If you ever find yourself in western Mass you should make a point to go here. Super food and the fact that they have a homemade crisp of the day makes them instantly my type of place. Apple was the crisp of the day and I’m happy to report that it was perfectly yummy.

After dinner, Emily asked if we could go for a walk. Who was I to say no? My heart is still smiling from the fact that as we took our first steps, she reached out to hold my hand and never let go the entire walk. Few things melt my heart like affection from my daughter.

We took a few more photos and got back in the car for the last leg of our journey.

Pulling into our driveway in the dark of night meant that our road trip had come to an end.

Roxie was happy we were home and so were we. Until the next adventure!

Daddy & Daughter Road Trip to Syracuse, NY

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Coleman® Outdoor Portable Oven/Stove

Friday, June 22nd, 2012

I grew up spending at least a week camping every summer with my family. We’d pack up the station wagon, drive to a national park or campground and set up camp for the week. Just thinking back about these times as I write this makes me smile.

Camping is something I still have a love for. It doesn’t matter if it is out of my backback or the back of my car, I love it both ways. We try to get away at least one week every summer, but lately we have to settle for a long weekend.

One brand that I grew up loving and still use to this day is Coleman.

I can remember pumping up the old liquid fuel stove and have cooked tons of meals over my two burner propane. They are one of the few brands that I love and trust and that have never let me down over the years.

Recently, I heard about their new Outdoor Portable Oven/Stove. I remember reading about it and thinking that it was either genius or insane.

Coleman noticed me wondering this and asked if I’d like to try one out. How could I say no to that? They sent me one and this past weekend Emily and I gave it a whirl on the deck to try making brownies.

The top of the oven is your typical Coleman two burner stove. It works great, just like they always have.

My only complaint is that I’m not a big fan of the cover and the sides. They are made out of rather thin metal and I miss the various notches on the connections with the side to have the back up straight or leaned back more. There is only one hinge and it is actually leaned back more than I’d like to protect from the wind.

Coleman® Outdoor Portable Oven/Stove

Coleman® Outdoor Portable Oven/Stove

Coleman® Outdoor Portable Oven/Stove

The oven heats up quickly which is a plus. But, the downside is because it isn’t exactly temperature controlled you are going to have to fiddle around a bit to get it to the exact temperature you like. If all you’ve ever cooked with is an oven at home and never over an open fire, you are going to have a lot of trial and error ahead of you.

You also have to keep in mind that there is not a ton of space in the oven. You could easily bake a cobbler, pie or small pizza in there though so there is plenty of room for the type of things you might use it for in the outdoors. I just want people to realize they won’t be roasting a chicken or anything of that size in it.

Coleman® Outdoor Portable Oven/Stove

Coleman® Outdoor Portable Oven/Stove

Coleman® Outdoor Portable Oven/Stove

Our brownies burnt a bit around the edges as the oven got hotter than we expected and it was a few minutes before we noticed. But, all in all it worked great and the only problem with making them in the oven outdoors instead of inside is that our house didn’t get filled with the wonderful smell. Then again, I’m betting our neighbors loved the smell wafting through the neighborhood.

All in all this is a pretty cool product. With the stove not being as solid as their regular ones are, I’m not sure this product is worth the price tag, but I have a feeling they won’t have any problem selling plenty of them for the convenience factor alone.

The thought of making fresh biscuits and desserts in it while car camping is definitely something I’m noodling on. The fact that you can also buy a bag for it that holds your propane tanks and protects it is a nice feature as well. It is compact enough that families and RVers alike will be able to find space for it.

Coleman® Outdoor Portable Oven/Stove

I’ll always prefer to cook over an open fire because I grew up doing so and know what I’m doing. But, if you want an oven that you can take with you instead of packing the kitchen sink, than this might be for you.

Make sure to get outside this summer and enjoy the great outdoors!

Disclosure: Coleman sent me the oven & bag so that I could review it. All thoughts are my own.

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Avoid a Vacation Tragedy – Keep Your Family Safe

Wednesday, May 23rd, 2012

David Potts was 44 years old with a fiancée and a baby. The couple’s trip to Maui would be their last big hurrah before she would undergo the double mastectomy designed to save her life. While visiting one of the island’s better known natural tourist attractions, the geyser-like Nakalele Blowhole, Potts was knocked into the ocean by a freak wave. In an instant, David Potts was gone. His body never to be found.

When it happened, I was only a few miles down the coast from the spot where David Potts lost his life. As the story of a man dying tragically in an instant while enjoying his vacation splashed news sites in Hawaii and around the globe, I became haunted by a terrible thought:

It could have been me.

When I got home, I began looking into vacation tragedies and I have to tell you I was absolutely stunned by what I discovered. For example, did you know that over 170 people have vanished without a trace from cruise ships since 1995? I’m not talking about obvious drunken stumbles off the promenade deck into the ocean’s cold embrace. I mean dozens of unsolved and highly suspicious cases including one where a woman’s beaded purse was found ripped and a ship’s map had been deliberately taped over the lens of the nearest security camera.

Even more alarming are those horrific vacation tragedy incidents involving children whose lives are senselessly stolen, killed due to resort negligence and seemingly-preventable causes, like the 12 year old boy who was sucked into an unprotected twelve inch wide drainage pipe at a major Cancun hotel’s snorkeling lagoon, his body folded in half by the immense suction. Or the 5 year old girl improperly given CPR by poorly trained Atlantis resort lifeguards in an incident suspected of causing her death.

By revealing these all-too-true stories to you, I am not trying to do for vacations what “Jaws” did for beaches. The incidents I discovered, especially those involving children of all ages, ended up becoming the basis for my latest non-fiction book, “Fatal Sunset: Deadly Vacations.” Simply put, “Fatal Sunset” is made up of true cautionary tales. It is filled with lessons for those willing to better understand how to identify, and hopefully avoid, similar tragic circumstances.

 

Researching and writing this book has helped me understand that recognition of certain circumstances while traveling can often be the difference between life and death. This is exactly why my new motto, thanks to this book, has become, “Dare to be aware” and why I would like to leave you with the top 10 list of Dare to Be Aware travel tips.

  • Tip 1: Never assume you have the same rights, protections and access to emergency services in other countries as you do in your own
  • Tip 2: Take the time to check out any attractions your children may use before you leave them unsupervised
  • Tip 3: Always let someone know where you’re going and how long you’ll be gone. If you’re on a trip, make sure someone in your party knows when you’ll be back and check in with them if those plans change
  • Tip 4: Don’t assume that video cameras are there to protect you – They are only there to protect the interests of the property owners who may have a different agenda when it comes to revealing what those cameras have seen
  • Tip 5: Just because there isn’t a warning sign, doesn’t mean there isn’t danger – Use your common sense and/or double check your plans with someone who knows the lay of the land
  • Tip 6: Do your research – Any reputable company offering trips, excursions, tours will have a digital footprint on the Internet. Use Google to search for reviews before you use them
  • Tip 7: Be suspicious of anyone who takes too much interest in you or your family – If someone you really don’t know invites you to join them in an excursion somewhere, don’t be afraid to turn them down. There are worse things than offending someone who you will probably never see again
  • Tip 8: If going out of the country, check for government issued travel advisories for your destination. If the state department says someplace is unsafe, take heed
  • Tip 9: Being on vacation doesn’t turn you into Superman – Don’t try doing anything that may be more physically involved than something you would do at home
  • Tip 10: Always listen and be kind to your flight attendant – He or she has much more experience than you in dealing with onboard emergencies and situations. Their help could save your life!

FATAL SUNSET: Deadly Vacations is available for Kindle, Nook, iBooks, in Paperback and in audiobook form at Audible, Amazon and iTunes.

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ONE Dad in Ghana

Tuesday, May 1st, 2012

Last week, I got to share in one of those journeys that changes a man forever.

The ONE Campaign invited me to travel with them to Ghana as the GAVI Alliance was rolling out two new vaccines across the country.

Ghana is the first country to do this with two vaccines at the same time and thousands of children will be vaccinated against pneumonia and rotovirus in the coming months. It is a huge step forward for the country and ONE had a lot to do with keeping awareness and funding for programs like this alive and well.

When people asked what my job for the week was, I told them that it was a mix of photo journalist, citizen reporter and travel writer. I was there to observe, learn and be inspired. My camera never left my hand except for when I had to write something down in my notebook. Plus it is time that the ONE Moms program expand to include dads as well and I’m officially the first ONE Dad.

Meeting the Chief

We got to see many different aspects of Ghana and projects that are helping the country improve healthcare, agriculture, small business and daily life.

Our journey took us to Africa’s third largest hospital to learn how they are helping HIV+ mothers insure the disease is not passed on to their children. We spent a morning at another hospital that not only helps children recover from acute malnutrition, but also teaches the mothers how to cook meals with local ingredients that will provide more nourishment for their families. There was even a stop by two local entrepreneurs who took their dreams owning their own businesses and made it a reality.

Proud Father

On the last day, we headed out into the mountains to see the vaccines being administered in the field.

Traveling with a mix of journalists and aid workers from around the world made for great conversations. In the two villages we visited, we were greeted by the elders and the initially hesitant but soon enthusiastic children. If you ever want to see the biggest smile in the world, take a photo of a child and show it to them for what might be the first time. They go crazy and it instantly warms your heart.

Jeanine Shows Her Photo

Seeing the moms bringing their babies to the clinics to get their new vaccines was a powerful moment. With so much hardship facing every children in Africa, having two less things to worry about because of the vaccines must be an overwhelming feeling.

Notice that I’ve said “moms” a lot?

That is because while the men of the family are usually the money earners and thus make all of the family decisions. They are not always that active in the welfare of the family, but still make the decisions. It scared me when one speaker was talking about how they must educate fathers why vaccines are so important because if they don’t allow it, the wife would not be allowed to bring the children into a clinic. It is an educational challenge that must be overcome. Getting the information out to all families.

Proud Dad

We went to the US Embassy to receive a briefing from a team at US AID. It was amazing to hear how a part of their activities involve getting permission from dads to allow their wives to farm and do other things to help out their financial situations. I wasn’t that familiar with the work that US AID does, but I can tell you that across the globe they are doing very important work that is helping improve lives on multiple levels.

Meeting the Village Elders

I met lots of parents while in Ghana and every dad I met was a fellow proud father like myself. I wish the trip had allowed for more conversations one on one with them, but we were not there for that so I hope I get to return with a focus there because I think there is a lot of good that could come of it.

I shared thoughts from the field over on my blog and you can view my complete photo collection or I’ve chosen and shared my favorite photos as well.

Ghana is a beautiful country with a lot of opportunity ahead for it. The work that ONE and other organizations like it do is vital to the future of Africa and I sense I’ll be more involved with them in the future. They do great work.

Thank you for having me be part of this!

 

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Reviewing the Nissan Quest

Monday, January 23rd, 2012

If you remember, last month just before the holidays I mentioned that I was taking part in a review of a Nissan Quest.

We had the car for the last two weeks of the year and I used it for pretty much of all of my driving during that time. We even used it to drive up to my parents house on Christmas day with the kids, dog and everything else so that we could fully give it a test drive.

It is a great minivan for sure. We forgot how much room you actually get in a car of this size. If you have kids and need a lot of room you can’t go wrong with a minivan. We had one for a number of years, but hadn’t driven one in almost 5 so it was nice to see that they’ve been updated.

My #HolidayQuest

I can’t compare the Nissan Quest to other minivans out in the market today because I have not driven any others, but besides a few points we liked it.

The Good

  • Having so much room feels great whenever you have to load up the kids and hit the road. They don’t it because they are not sitting on top of one another.
  • Having a DVD system with wireless headphones is great for long trips. We didn’t hear a peep from them the whole ride and we got to enjoy our music at the same time.
  • The automatic sliding doors on both sides are great when you have an armful of groceries.
  • I loved that when the back row of seats are down flat you can still get to the storage in the back. We put presents under there while our dog was safely laying on top.
  • It was winter so we couldn’t fully enjoy the dual sunroofs, but I love the idea of having this much natural light and fresh air at our fingertips.

The Not So Good

  • I don’t know what the designers were thinking, but putting the stick between the driver and all of the dash controls was not a smart idea. Blocking the driver from being able to get to the radio and climate controls makes zero sense.

My #HolidayQuest

  • My wife hated how big the side mirrors were. I hadn’t noticed them until she mentioned them, but they were crazy big for no real added benefit.

My #HolidayQuest

  • While I got my phone to connect via Bluetooth, I could never get the voice commands to work with it. This needs to be much more intuitive.

I was disappointed to find that the Nissan Quest does not include some features that I would expect to find standard on a vehicle of this type. The biggest being the lack of a navigation system. I was going to drive it to a meeting, but when I discovered it lacked this I parked it and took my own car instead. I would have also loved to see blind spot notification and better phone integration made standard safety features.

My #HolidayQuest

So overall it drove good, got great gas milage for a vehicle of it’s size and gave us more room than we were use to. But, the quality of the car as a whole left a lot to be desired. Again, I can’t say how it compares to other minivans as I’ve got nothing to compare it to, but I do know there are better options for family of four with a dog like I have.

Thank you Nissan for having me be part of the #HolidayQuest.

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My #HolidayQuest

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

When I first got pitched the idea of taking part in an influencer program with Nissan around their Quest, my first reaction was, “why in the world would I want to test a minivan?”

Actually, if I’m going to be completely truthful I had no idea what a Nissan Quest was. I thought it was a mini SUV for some reason, but my wife told me she thought it was their minivan. As usual, she was right.

Whenever I get a pitch like this I always politely reply that I’m “not a car guy” because I’m not. I love trying out new cars, but I can’t talk about the horsepower or anything like that with any level of knowledge because I don’t know or care about those sorts of things.

But, what I do care about is how comfortable a car fits my family (Roxie our dog included), is it safe and how well does it get us to where we are trying to go. I’m also a fan of a killer sound system, navigation and other safety features.

After I told them this, they still wanted me involved. With it being the holiday season, I still wasn’t sure though. Then they mentioned that in return for taking part in a Twitter Chat and sharing my thoughts on the car they’d  make a donation to the charity of my choice. That was an offer I couldn’t refuse!

So, tonight they are holding the #HolidayQuest Twitter Party and you are all invited.

I’ll be there along with the other parents taking part in this program. They will also be randomly selecting from people who participate to win gift cards. Who doesn’t want some free cash during the holidays?

I’ve got the Quest for two weeks and plan on using it instead of our main car to do everything we’d normally do. When it is done I’ll share my thoughts. First impressions are that I love the dual sunroofs, but I’m still not a minivan guy.

Also, if you are curious, the charity I’m donating to is Fisher House which I’m a big supporter of. Think of them as the Ronald McDonald House for the families of wounded soldiers.

Disclosure : http://cmp.ly/1/jfVEST

New Orleans Weekend

Friday, April 29th, 2011

New Orleans. The land of beads, boobs and beignets. A place I had always wanted to visit, but was never in any rush to get there.

When I found out I’d be going I joked that I didn’t know which was happier, my stomach or my camera. I love experiencing new things and I love sharing them with people. You can see my New Orleans photos if you want or keep on reading to enjoy my time.

I was in town to speak to the New Orleans AMA (speaking at The Zoo no less) and then my wife would join me for a nice romantic weekend together off the grid. As the plane descended out of the clouds, I instantly knew I was in a completely new part of the country that I had never been before. The lush green everywhere below me and the flatness of it all with water in every direction instantly made me realize just how bad it must have been here when Hurricane Katrina set it’s sites on the mainland.

Drummers on Bourban Street

New Orleans gets a bad rap as “a party town.” Sure, they know how to have a good time and one walk down Bourbon Street will supply you with ample opportunities for every type of good time. Yet, it is not the frat party soaked city that I expected. In fact Bourbon Street is much smaller than I imagined and the minute you turn down another street the sounds of debauchery fade away into the quiet vibe of the city.

Walking the Streets of New Orleans - April 2011

The French Market

Walking the Streets of New Orleans - April 2011

Instead it is full of good quality, fun loving people who enjoy all the good things in life. Sure, that includes parades, masks and drinking, but it also includes great food, down home hospitably and over the top creativity. There are art galleries, antique shops, an aquarium and more all to explore. Something for everyone.

Thankfully for me New Orleans is a foodies paradise. The minute I got in to town, I dropped my bags, grabbed my camera and hit the streets looking for food. I ended up at the Riverfront Restaurant and this unassuming little building got my business because they had a waiter outside who when I asked if the food was any good, grinned and said, “of course it is.” Over my first muddy delicious cup of gumbo and a fried alligator po-boy I was in heaven.

Cafe Du Monde

THE Order at Cafe Du Monde

Everyone will tell you that you must be sure to have the traditional Café Au Lait and Beignets at Café Du Monde and I feared the type of tourist trap that I have no desire for, but instead found an open air café full of olive green plastic chairs from the 1950’s and a cement floor streaked with powdered sugar in every direction. With a cool breeze blowing in from the Mississippi River, I dug into these pillows of fried awesomeness and took part in a conference call. You’ve got to love the mute button on your phone at a time like this.

There was plenty of other great food throughout the weekend including dinners of blackened drum at K-Pauls Louisiana Kitchen, butter fish with lobster dumplings at GW Fins and what my wife called one of the best meals of her life at the Palace Café where I dined on andouille encrusted redfish and Laura had her first ever taste of bananas foster.

Palace Cafe

Brunch at Brennan's

My favorite meal of the day is breakfast and while I enjoy a great dinner, there is nothing more perfect for me then a perfectly done breakfast. My favorite find (we actually went twice) was The Ruby Slipper Cafe where the migas is tasty and their eggs cochan is to die for. On top of the great food they had a great story about coming back strong after the hurricane and it shows. Also, be sure if you’ve got some extra money to go to brunch at Brennan’s. It is expensive, but three courses of yum. Mine started with turtle soup followed up by filet mignon hash and finished with a dutch apple. Make reservations though because this place gets busy fast.

The Line at Mother's

One tip I’ll give you is that you’ll only need two meals a day. By the time you wake up and get breakfast you are not going to need lunch and a late dinner is perfect timing with all the walking.

Drinking is a big part of the New Orleans culture and not just the pitchers that get spilled on the streets. There are numerous little cafes, bars and hidden spots where you can sit back and enjoy an afternoon cocktail to escape the heat. While The Carousel Bar is a bit kitschy and everyone knows about it, they do make a great drink and instead of peanuts you’ll find bowls of barbecue flavored chips that for some reason work perfectly. Our find of the trip though was the Pimm’s Cups at Café Adelaide that was just across the street from the W Hotel where we stayed.

Cafe Adele

Did I mention the people and how great they are? As we walked from shop to shop we found ourselves having great conversations with complete strangers. I was the only person in the A Gallery looking at the beautiful photographs and struck up a conversation with the owner. Later a shop caught my eye with their bright colored dolls and after chatting with the woman working, she allowed to take as long as I liked going through the attached art gallery of Jaime Hayes. The next day when I returned with Laura to show her the store, I was brought over and introduced to the artist himself. Love meeting fellow creative people and we shared some good laughs.

Walking the Streets of New Orleans

There is so much to see and do in New Orleans. Jumping on any of the trolley cars can take you all over the city. We opted to sign up for a two and half hour tour through VIP City Tours that took us everywhere from the Garden District to the Lower Ninth Ward. They do a great job with the tour and it is well worth the time and money to sign up and go with them. My heart sank as we saw the devastation that is still left from Katrina, while seeing the lap of luxury at the other end of town. It was amazing to see all the work Make It Right is doing, but as an American it angered and saddened me to see so much rebuilding still left to do.

At a Cemetary

National WWII Museum

Now, while I’m no history buff or museum freak, I was told again and again that we had to make time for the National WWII Museum and now I’m telling you the same. The entire museum is breathtaking and even when you are looking at painful photographs or hand written notes from soldiers after surviving D-Day you leave with a much better understanding of just how epic and important this war was. Be sure to pay the extra money to see the movie Beyond All Boundaries they offer. It is all a not to be missed experience.

Finally, I have to give a heart felt thank you to my buddy Tom Martin and his family for the best memory of my weekend in NOLA. When he heard I have a love for crawfish he invited me over to his house for a traditional backyard boil.

Backyard Crawfish Boil

This act of pure southern hospitality and absolute gluttony will have me smiling for years. There is nothing as beautiful as 40 lbs of cooked crawfish being dumped on a table with sausage, corn, potatoes and garlic while you hold an ice cold cup of NOLA Blonde Ale in your hand and prepare to dig in. Just typing these words has me salivating for more even though I think I’m still full from that night.

New Orleans was not what I expected. It is better than I think most people give it credit for.

It is a city of every type of person, food, art and fun. Kids and adults alike can find plenty to do and you can easily avoid any of the areas that you decide are not right for you. I never once felt overwhelmed, lost or ready to leave. In fact I can’t wait to return.

Moving Through Life

Wednesday, March 9th, 2011

I’ve mentioned it before, but my whole life has been migrant.

I was born on a military base, grew up in an active duty military family, went to college and joined the military.  All I’ve ever known is moving every 2-4 years, with very rare exception.  Through the years, I’ve always had folks I’ve met “locally” tell me they can’t imagine how hard it is to constantly move from place to place and never put down roots.  I know what they’re asking, but honestly, I can only imagine what their lives are like, never moving and having to live in the same place without moving.  Sometimes I know I desire the chance to see what it’s like to stay in one place for a long time, while some of my stationary friends desire the experience of my adventures, always seeing new places.  In the end though, I can only imagine what the difference is like.  I can’t really appreciate staying still it other than academically.  As an adult, this lifestyle comes with its own excitement and frustration, but it’s always boiled down to a part of the routine of my life.  Having grown up this way, I’m sensitive to ensuring my son is best able to deal with the stresses moving puts on him as a little guy.

We should move this Summer, sometime in the next six months.  Steph and I are already talking about it with Paul.  We moved the first time with him when he was one and a half and he has no memory of it.  This time, he’ll be four and a half.  He has a small circle of friends here.  He knows what it means to get on a plane and travel, but we’ve always returned to Germany–the only place he thinks of as home.  We’re already anticipating him asking to see his friends or to visit places here in Germany once we make our “permanent” move.

Steph and I have started doing the same thing with Paul that my parents used to do with me: taking about the pending move as an adventure.  He hears us talk with each other and with him about the amazing chance to get to see another new place, more cool stuff and to meet new friends.  We don’t talk about who and what we’re leaving behind, especially from his limited perspective.  When I was small, moves seemed so final, but life became an adventure and we still get to experience quite a bit of it through airplanes and automobiles.

After spending my entire life in military service, I’ve learned the world is small and getting smaller every year.  We have friends we continue to cross paths with because we’re assigned together again, or simply because we visit one another.  Paul will continue to see many of them too, and unlike my young life, there’s a good chance we’re only an assignment or two from retiring and truly settling down.  Paul will still have the greater part of his youth spent living in one place, with all the associated pros and cons.  As for us, we won’t mind taking him back to see the places and meet the people we’ve enjoyed over the years.  The adventure will continue!

It’s great to be a dad!

The Worldwide Trouble with Youth Sports: Apathy, Poverty, & Soccer

Tuesday, January 18th, 2011

(photo by Vladimir Rys/Bongarts/Getty Images)

As I traveled through the United Emirates, South Africa and Cairo, Egypt I found several striking things that they all had in common as it applied to youth sports: a sense of frustration, poverty, and soccer.

South Africa is a beautiful country that exemplifies the best conditions for an outside active lifestyle. The weather is warm, the sun shines often, and they take their sports seriously. Though I witnessed many kids playing outside, many residents told me they play only a select number of sports due to their lack of access, or introduction to a wider variety of other activities. Their sports of choice are soccer, rugby (for some), tennis, & water sports.

Egypt, a country steeped in ancient history, unfortunately has 90% of it’s population living in poverty, leaving little opportunity for a majority of kids to experience a quality active lifestyle. Their dominant sport is soccer, played by many in the streets, with little access to many other sports or activities due to the expense and lack of exposure to other activities.

United Emirates love to watch all types of sports from soccer to golf, tennis, motor sports, horse racing, cricket, rugby, etc., yet they participate in very few. The majority of active participants are “foreign transplants”. Many I talked to claimed it was the heat that prevents kids from being as active as they should be, therefore they stay inside. But a closer look unveils that it is quite pleasant 6 months out of the year.

The three most common reasons I believe such a large number of kids are inactive worldwide is as follows:

1) APATHY:
All three areas of the world that I traveled had a high percentage of inactive kids. Many people in these countries are critical of the younger generation’s “laziness”, a subject that frustrates older generations and leads to apathy. Like our parents, we often approach and attempt to solve our children’s problems without sometimes fully understanding the contemporary world kids are growing up in today. We must respect their fast paced world of information flow, and technology, in order to fully understand how their minds work and how they’re motivated to play and be active.

2) POVERTY:
All three countries have an issue with poverty, but no one quite has it like Egypt. Many Egyptians explained to me that children would love to play different sports yet they cannot afford the equipment, or access other activities (such as the water/beach, lessons, equipment etc.). The poorer areas of both South Africa and United Emirates made similar claims.

3) SOCCER:
Now I do believe that soccer is a great sport to play. I like soccer, and have nothing against the game. Outside the United States the love & obsession for the game, and the easy access to play anywhere, have made the sport the most popular in the world. At each stop along this Middle East and African tour I found dozens of soccer games on television throughout the day. They live & breath soccer, but there lies the problem. The love and obsession they have for the game of soccer has actually harmed each generation that has grown up with the sport. Many people in every country I visited pointed out that “There’s too much soccer, that’s all kids play.”

One of the main reasons I’m in these countries is to introduce kids to athletic development through different sport disciplines. If soccer is one of the only sports and athletic activities that you partake in, it can create generations of one dimensional athletes. When you ignore the development of the upper body and how it coordinates with lower extremities, you create generations of imbalanced athletes. And from a kid’s viewpoint, if you don’t provide the experience of variety, or options to participate in other activities, many lose interest in remaining active for the rest of their lives.

Now solving these issues would involve the large undertaking of changing lifestyles and culture. Something that won’t happen overnight. However if these countries ever want to reverse obesity, and turn kids into active individuals, they may seriously want to consider introducing individual type sports.

(photo by Indigo Skate Camp)

One sport that comes to mind and has limited expense, can be accessed in many different places, and develops many important athletic/movement skills, is skateboarding. If you have pavement or a hard surface, and can access a board, helmet and pads, you can skate on the streets for years learning tricks, developing agility, balance, coordination, strength & stamina.

The other sport that balances the athletic development of the upper with the lower body is tennis. The access of tennis rackets and balls would allow kids to again play on any hard flat surface, and even small space areas against walls. The tennis industry would be well served to introduce the sport in the same manner soccer has throughout the world in small spaces on streets worldwide.

Different cultures around the world need to leave their comfort zone and the familiarity of what they grew up with and try new things if they want younger generations to lead healthy, active lifestyles. The same holds true for the United States. We must expose kids to many different sports and activities, then provide access through our schools, communities, and at home.

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